Do you have a crush but not sure how to approach it? This article will teach you the ins and outs of liking someone
So we’ve all been there, we really really like a girl and we think that no one else could like her quite as much as we do. At this point we are in love, we are infatuated and we want nothing more than to see and talk to this girl.
This article will talk about the sorts of things we should avoid in this situation and some sure fire signs that may tell us that the girl is also interested back. If the girl feels exactly the same way, you could have something absolutely beautiful, but if she doesn’t, you could find your whole life go downhill until you get back on your feet and realise she wasn’t all that special.
So what should you do if you really like this girl but your not sure if the feelings are mutual? It really depends on the situation. Are you already friends with her? If you are then that could be a good thing. Contrary to the popular idea of having a “friend zone”, you are actually in a better position than a lot of other people. By already being her friend, it already shows that she likes you even after she knows you. She enjoys spending time with you even if it is just as a “friend”. To get out of this zone, you just need to change the way you talk to her and change the way you approach it. You need to throw in some sexual tension, tease and flirt with her a bit more than you normally would and see if she reacts. The thing that normally puts people off dating their friends is that they’re scared of losing the friendship. At this point I would just like to remind you of the phrase “it’s better to have loved and lost, than never have loved at all”.
If you’re not friends yet, you need to achieve that first and fast. The best position to be in is when you’re good enough friends to hang out but not long enough to worry about ruining the friendship. I would suggest just approaching her and talking to her maybe about a similar subject. If you’re in the same course then talk about the work, if you’re working for the same company, talk about the boss. Just make sure she knows you exist and then move on from there. Only you know when its right to make the move to ask her out on a date.
The best piece of advice I could give you is to go for it no matter what you think the outcome will be. You only live once and if it gets to the stage where you like her that much, you need an answer as to what she thinks. You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain. If she rejects you at least you’ll get closure and be able to move to the next girl easier. No matter what you do don’t let it drag on.
If you realise that she doesn’t share the same feelings as you then try to move on as fast as you can. There’s no point waiting for someone to like you when there’s so many other girls out there.
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